Loss

Sometimes I find my friends, especially my best friends feel loss someone in their life, one of them is father or mother. I couldn't say anything, but "stay strong, I'm sorry I can't be there for you, hope yours get a better pleace beside Him, bla bla bla". I don't know how It will help a lot, a little, or not at all.

I absolutely know how the feeling is. According to me, having friends in bad condition like that remind me how I past trought there. It was really hard, I swear. Althought we already know that it will be happen someday. Losing them mean losing one of target who want is gived our achievement. Losing them mean losing one of people who enjoy our future with us. Losing them mean there's something that we have to do just by ourself.

We can't run away from death. We just can plan how we stay next, after that. Stay alive without thinking "if he/she were still here, if he/she were not died, if only if only bla bla". Stop blaming fate that you've gived. You have to suck it every your day.

It will gonna be harder. But, we should not be a poor one in this world. I personally hate people that have pity to me. I just want everyone think that I'm okay with that. Praying and growing wisely is the best way that we can do for them who can't stay beside us. Because tears never make them back, so stay strong at least not for ourself but for them who have gone.

So if they're staying on for you till today, be thankful please. Because you will realize that they're too pretty important, if you're not in the same life again with them.